The human penis
It has been said that all men are created equal, but this is not quite true when it comes down to the physical attributes with which we are born. In this respect men can usually be categorized into three groups: Most are average. Then there is a smaller group of men who are somewhat less than average and the smallest group of men who are blessed with more. These men with MORE are the ones you hear about but hardly ever meet. They are the popular, the successful, those rare few we all envy and hate at the same time, yet they are the men we all want to be. I was born average, but I have become more than that, and so can you.
There is an obsession sweeping this country. In fact, it has become much bigger than that. This hysteria knows no bounds; it is in the heart of all men in every walk of life on every continent of the world. I call it The Dream and the effort needed to obtain this elusive dream I call The Craft.
What defines a man is self image. It starts when we are young. The human penis is an amazing and powerful organ. It begins to control our emotions and psychological makeup long before it is developed into any real usefulness. This small appendage starts young boys down the road to manhood, and how they perceive themselves in proportion to others contributes more to their self perception as adults than anything they will learn or experience in life. Boys judge themselves harshly by the size and appearance of their penis early on in life, rating themselves in relationship to siblings and their peers, but even more so to their fathers.
In most cases the first time a boy sees a penis other than his own, it is a sib a father. And because there is so much variation in flaccid size the episode can range from an awkward moment to a devastating childhood event. This experience is crucial to the self esteem he will develop as an adult. A careless negative comment from Dad at this point can affect a child deeply. Parental penile belittlement harms kids more subtly than other types of child abuse because PPB is more invisible. Joking or teasing a young boy about his size seems harmless to a lot of dads and even to the child himself at the time. They both fail to realize just how much damage it can do.Then later in life this psychological condition may be worsened by comments that often come from wives or girlfriends about past lovers that were well hung. Sometimes these comments come in a fit of anger with the intent of hurting a spouse, but more often they come innocently, jokingly with no harmful intent. Regardless the childhood trauma is compounded, and the psychological event often becomes intense and more deeply hidden.